Ok so on Facebook I like the page H____ H______ and they have a chat every night. Well tonight there was a guy in there who had just lost a battle buddy and wanted to chat. Well some woman flipped out cause he was in there and was like everyone in here is cheating on their SO. Anyways I was talking to a few friends also on the site who have come up with support pages but they have one for men and one for women who have been to war, when I suggest a mix page apparently it was shot down
because they think that men and women support pages should be separate to keep people from cheating on their SO.
I have no idea what I am rambling about but I am.
Is it me or does it seem wrong to separate men and women support pages all because someone thinks that CHEATING may occur? It bugs the crap out of me
that people think because my SO is deployed and I talk to another guy I am cheating on him. I get along better with guys than I do girls, SO knows this and he also knows I would not cheat on him. We both have opposite sex friends and neither of us have problems with it.
Does everyone think like this? If you think you are cheating by talking to or having friends of the opposite sex while your SO is deployed please give me some light into why you think that. I am just trying to understand.
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2010-10-27, 13:31
for someone to say just cause you talk to another man when you are with someone it cheating cause in that case I am cheating everyday an visa versa I mean we are ALL adults an what not so I don't see what the BIG deal is. Now with a forum like this yes I see why it is FEMALES ONLY cause this is where we go to BITCH about life,marriage,relationships,ask questions an tell our dirty little secrets. Some people just can't get their heads out of their ass long enough to see what you are trying to do. I have faith that if you want to put a support page together an run it then jump on it hunnie don't let anyone tell you that you can't cause if they do show then you WILL 